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                     westlondon_gyal 
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                          Posted - 21 Jul 2004 :  11:51:53      
                           
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                        ok ok people im going out with someone who's 27 and im onli 17 and i really like him but cnt trust him i mean he getz drunk all da time he has soo many ex gal friends n i keep thinking sum tymz dat he mite be married but not telling me i mean he neva leaves his fone on at night im getting stressed!!!!!! 
                        help! 
                         
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                     khushi 
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                          Posted - 21 Jul 2004 :  12:27:30    
                           
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                        dont take any risk gal 
                        it sounds very ummmm risky to me 
                         
                         
                         
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                     babygal 
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                          Posted - 21 Jul 2004 :  15:05:36      
                           
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                        erm, i agree wid u khushi. it dus sound risky. bt wot u hav 2 fink is dat hw much can u trust him?? n if da answer is nt vry much...den its up 2 u!!! 
                         
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                     Lutonian 
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                          Posted - 21 Jul 2004 :  16:16:05      
                           
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                        it sounds like u dont trust him at all...id follow my gut feelins if i was u... 
                         
                        ps. might b a good idea 2 try n get him off the booze - that stuff messes ppl up big time! if u cant get him 2 stop he's a liability for u. but thats just my personal opinion.... 
                         
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                     ssssima 
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                          Posted - 21 Jul 2004 :  16:34:14        
                           
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                        Trust is the key to any reletionship, if thers no trust thers no hope, but u shud talk 2him, tell him how u feel 
                         
                        DiL K@ k�hNa HuM $uB m@n�..DiL n@ Ki$i Ki m@n�..Ja@n Bhi HuMn� Ja@n Gay� $uB..�k WoHi n@ Ja@n�..DiL To PaGaL Hai DiL De�w@na Hai.. | 
                       
                      
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                     Lutonian 
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                          Posted - 21 Jul 2004 :  16:36:18      
                           
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                            Originally posted by Lutonian 
                             
                            it sounds like u dont trust him at all...id follow my gut feelins if i was u... 
                             
                            ps. might b a good idea 2 try n get him off the booze - that stuff messes ppl up big time! if u cant get him 2 stop he's a liability for u. but thats just my personal opinion.... 
                             
                            I Just Lay It Out...For Yo' All To Play It Out... 
                             
                           
 
                           
                          i mean follow UR gut feelins not MY gut feelings....u follow my gut feelings ul end up in kebab shop! 
                           
                          I Just Lay It Out...For Yo' All To Play It Out...
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                     babygal 
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                          Posted - 21 Jul 2004 :  16:53:47      
                           
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                        lol 
                         
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                     ssssima 
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                          Posted - 21 Jul 2004 :  16:54:34        
                           
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                        LOL @ Luto u joka 
                         
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                     khushi 
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                          Posted - 21 Jul 2004 :  16:56:38    
                           
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                        lolz lut he's hilarious 
                         
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                     sweet_as_suga 
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                          Posted - 21 Jul 2004 :  21:25:57      
                           
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                        lol@lut!!! always thnkin abt kebabs n pasta 
                         
                        hey westlondon gyal 
                         
                        firstly dint u lyk bengal tiger?? hhhmmm lol 
                         
                        secondly i'm 17 myself n i dnt think i cud trust a 27 yr old lyk dat so if i was in a relationship lyk dat first i'd thnk y he wanted to see me n den i reckon i;d make both our lives easier by ending it dat way u can concentrate on a relationship wiv sum1 who isn't always influenced by booze xx 
                         
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                     Fabia 
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                          Posted - 22 Jul 2004 :  14:50:07        
                           
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                              Originally posted by Lutonian 
                               
                              it sounds like u dont trust him at all...id follow my gut feelins if i was u... 
                               
                              ps. might b a good idea 2 try n get him off the booze - that stuff messes ppl up big time! if u cant get him 2 stop he's a liability for u. but thats just my personal opinion.... 
                               
                              I Just Lay It Out...For Yo' All To Play It Out... 
                               
                             
 
                             
                            i mean follow UR gut feelins not MY gut feelings....u follow my gut feelings ul end up in kebab shop! 
                             
                            I Just Lay It Out...For Yo' All To Play It Out... 
                             
                           
 
                           
                          always finding a way 2 mke me laff bruv, thank and keep it up!!! 
                           
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                          "O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You." 
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                     Lutonian 
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                          Posted - 23 Jul 2004 :  00:23:51      
                           
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                        ur welcome sis! 
                         
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                     Naz2kool 
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                          Posted - 23 Jul 2004 :  07:59:38      
                           
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                        Westlondon gyal, I think you shud definately back off from him... fact that he is 27 is 10 years older then u is bad enuff (not that i have anything against age gaps, but TEN years for a 17 year old is not good!) Also him gettin drunk all the time... u definately cant trust him... If he is able to do that then he is able to commit possibly a multitude of sins... 
                        I dont think his intentions are good coz a guy that age wont go out wid a 17 year old if he was serious.. he wud go out wid some1 closer to his age. 
                        He is only possibly goin out wid u for fun coz u r young and he knows he wud get away wid manipulating u easily... Be very cautious, ur freinds may be right about him being married! 
                         
                         
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                     westlondon_gyal 
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                          Posted - 23 Jul 2004 :  10:12:31      
                           
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                        thanks peeeepz! 
                        yeh i like bengal tiger but hes on his own flex! 
                        newayz hes too much 4 me hes got too many tings goin on im too mature 4 me age das maybe sumtymz why he tinks he can treat me like him i duno man newayz! thankz u lot ur a loverly bunch and hey naz long time no seee 
                         
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                     Rani 
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                          Posted - 23 Jul 2004 :  11:32:22      
                           
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                        u know age dont matter if u really like him and if he likes u . but if u cant trust him dump him or confront him about it and see what he says. dont keep it to urself 
                         
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                     Naz2kool 
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                          Posted - 23 Jul 2004 :  14:44:50      
                           
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                        yeah, age shudent matter if both of you are dedicated to each other... but if one treats the other real bad then its most probably not gonna work.. and not worth pursuing. 
                         
                        Yeah westlondon gyal, its been a while since I've seen u online... Hope u r not lettin this guy rule your life... 
                        Take care of yourself... 
                         
                         
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                     Amina 
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                          Posted - 24 Jul 2004 :  13:47:53    
                           
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                            Originally posted by westlondon_gyal 
                             
                             
                             
                            ok ok people im going out with someone who's 27 and im onli 17 and i really like him but cnt trust him i mean he getz drunk all da time he has soo many ex gal friends n i keep thinking sum tymz dat he mite be married but not telling me i mean he neva leaves his fone on at night im getting stressed!!!!!! 
                             
                            relationship builds from trust, if u cnt trust him den r u wid d rite person. 
                            listen sis d age gap is significant. i'm sure u'l find sum1 u can trust all in good time. think b4 u take further action. 
                            all the best 
                             
                            live life 2 d ful xtent 
                            help! 
                             
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                     admin 
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                          Posted - 30 Jul 2004 :  07:01:23        
                           
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                          i dunno where u girls find these guys, maybe there's just not enough nice guys like me and lut to go around! oh well, time to go and make that cloning machine!  
                           
                           
                           
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                     sweet_as_suga 
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                          Posted - 30 Jul 2004 :  17:19:05      
                           
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                        lolz ones enuf!!!!!! 
                         
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                     Amina 
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                          Posted - 30 Jul 2004 :  22:39:01    
                           
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                            Originally posted by admin 
                             
                            i dunno where u girls find these guys, maybe there's just not enough nice guys like me and lut to go around! oh well, time to go and make that cloning machine!  
                             
                             
                             
                             "98% of the time i'm right, why worry about the other 3%?" 
                             
                           
 
                           
                          u wish 
                           
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                     babygal 
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                          Posted - 01 Aug 2004 :  20:55:56      
                           
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                        lol @ admin. hopefully u wn't b able 2 mke dis clonin machine!! 
                        1 of u n 1 of lut. is mre then enuf!! 
                         
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                     Lutonian 
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                          Posted - 01 Aug 2004 :  22:01:24      
                           
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                            Originally posted by sweet_as_suga 
                             
                            lolz ones enuf!!!!!! 
                             
                            .�:*�`*:�.mi��i� � I� Lik� Br��thi�- I j�t ���'t �t�p.�:*��*:�. 
                             
                           
 
                           
                          well im relieved u didnt say 'none is enough!!'  
                           
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                     Uzi 
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                          Posted - 01 Aug 2004 :  22:06:05          
                           
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                        | lol admin | 
                       
                      
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                     BengaLTiger 
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                          Posted - 06 Aug 2004 :  19:12:42              
                           
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                        Yo westlondon girl, what u doing wid that fag when i'm around? 
                         
                        I dont understand these girls, trust me! 
                         
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                     Fabia 
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                          Posted - 06 Aug 2004 :  19:14:03        
                           
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                        oh lolz 
                         
                        "He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!" 
                        "O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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                     Amina 
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                          Posted - 08 Aug 2004 :  15:04:13    
                           
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                        bengal is available 
                         
                        live life 2 d ful xtent | 
                       
                      
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                     Fabia 
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                          Posted - 10 Aug 2004 :  13:02:28        
                           
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                        u knw dat 
                         
                        "He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!" 
                        "O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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                     Amina 
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                          Posted - 10 Aug 2004 :  20:20:50    
                           
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                        so do u 
                         
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                     Lutonian 
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                          Posted - 10 Aug 2004 :  21:08:37      
                           
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                        lol...jems is available too fabs (and U kno dat)  
                         
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                     Fabia 
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                          Posted - 10 Aug 2004 :  23:00:09        
                           
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                            Originally posted by Lutonian 
                             
                            lol...jems is available too fabs (and U kno dat)  
                             
                            I Just Lay It Out...For Yo' All To Play It Out... 
                             
                           
 
                           
                           
                           why am i feeling shy, that i do not know... why you sayinf jems is available, that i do not know why , and it wont be possible and U KNW DAT 
                           
                          "He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!" 
                          "O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You." 
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                     rudegyal 
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                          Posted - 11 Aug 2004 :  11:09:38    
                           
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                        lolz..bless! jokers hehe.. 
                         
                        westlondon gyal.. me personaly thinks hes too ole for you.. i mean wut hppened to all the grls in his age group.. u say hes had alotta ex gf's.. why did they all leave him?its worth lookin into.. n wut u gna do if he is married 4real? ur jus gna get hurt huni.. get yourself out.. b4 u get into a even bigger hole. 
                         
                        good luck wit it babe xx 
                         
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