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                     ALISHA_NIQ 
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                          Posted - 17 Apr 2004 :  12:44:46    
                           
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                        Simple question 
                         
                        Ever been online and started chatting to someone on a regular basis, about ur life and whats happening,,,,,,and at times also flirting. 
                         
                        is this right or wrong....especially i someone on the other end begins to declare their undying love for you!!!! 
                         
                        I have seen people do this and then meet up as well. is this good or bad.....would you runaway with anyone on Asian Forum??? | 
                       
                     
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                     BaByRaZ 
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                          Posted - 17 Apr 2004 :  14:04:19    
                           
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                          lol... erm i dnt tink il runaway wiv ne1 on d forum...lol 
                          or newher else...but erm.. i meet ppl wel kinda chat2ppl 4 few 30mins or so sumtyms if im reli bugd up wiv sumfin in my head... n want sum strangers explainin 2 me but i dnt reli get atached as iv got 2many ncie ppl alredy in my lyf n wudnt wana replace em... if u get wat i mean!! 
                           
                          
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                     ALISHA_NIQ 
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                          Posted - 17 Apr 2004 :  16:30:52    
                           
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                        Yeah, i fink i understand what u r saying, but there are some young niave vulnerable kids out there.....thats the scary thing 
                         
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                     Mizorganized 
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                          Posted - 17 Apr 2004 :  19:06:26        
                           
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                        | i totally agree with the both of u...and it is scary that kids are meeting up with ppl they hardly know....but for the older lot...i think its just pure curiousity...meeting up i mean. 2 ppl can chat...exchange pics but nothing is better than meeting up. Its not all bad...if ur matture enough then go for it, if not 4get it...either way if ur gonna meet up with some1 its at ur own peril ;-) | 
                       
                      
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                     Mister Relaxed 
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                          Posted - 17 Apr 2004 :  19:14:31      
                           
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                        i think there has to be a cut-off point with age..maybe a system needs to be put into place..maybe when id cards come out..personal id numbers will be like a secure way to be online....even so caution needs to be taken...and kids seriously need to be watched when they're online.. 
                         
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                     ALISHA_NIQ 
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                          Posted - 18 Apr 2004 :  11:41:35    
                           
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                        Yep, i agree, there needs to be mor protection for the youngsters. I once caught my 9 yr old cousin talking to a 21 yr old, and saying she was a 17 yr old. now thats scary 
                         
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                     BengaLTiger 
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                          Posted - 18 Apr 2004 :  11:57:56              
                           
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                        There’s a group of elite folks, who hold a meeting on dal***! and we discuss ways to combat similar concerns, and ways to put a stop to it, or introduce measures to authenticate users properly, and make sure they are who they say they are. I administer a large chat room, and I have developed techniques to infiltrate a person’s computer, which BTW, I know is wrong or maybe illegal, but I’m not doing this for malicious purposes, it’s just to check, and spy on the supposed freak for a while, and if this person is suspected to be someone else then he says he is. We make sure he doesn't log on our chat room ever again. Saying all this, it’s difficult, and hard to totally control such evil despo’s. One way to go would be, to unplug the internet totally, or ban all the Police, monks, and teachers of predominantly white background from then internet. Dirty rascals! 
                         
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                     admin 
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                          Posted - 19 Apr 2004 :  02:18:34        
                           
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                          parents need to filter internet access, using parental control like the ones found in AOL/BT Yahoo. 
                           
                          children should not be alowed to browse the Internet as it is, content needs to be selective dependant on age. email also needs to be filtered by parents so email are only accepted from known persons. 
                           
                          its very difficult to verify who the person is on the other end of a chat conversation or even in this forum. ways that will help verify the persons identity will be using credit card authentication - then again people under 18 i think cant have credit/debit cards? 
                           
                          Verification will at least give the facilitator some proof of identity and will reduce the dangers of chat. 
                           
                          anyways be careful people! if u meet anyone from this forum! let us know! 
                           
                           
                           
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                     groovychick 
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                          Posted - 17 May 2004 :  16:06:40      
                           
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                        so tru admin!!! 
                         
                        ReMeMbEr mY nAmE * ReMeMbEr My FaCe * CuZ tHeRe AiNt nO oThA hOnEy ThAt CaN tAkE mY pLaCe | 
                       
                      
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                     admin 
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                          Posted - 18 May 2004 :  16:18:51        
                           
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                          tenku tenku groovychick! 
                           
                           
                           
                           "98% of the time i'm right, why worry about the other 3%?"
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                     sweet_as_suga 
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                          Posted - 18 May 2004 :  19:06:15      
                           
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                        yeh but admin my bro did dat to me for a laugh and i cudnt even get into goole!!!!!!!! how was i supposed to research hwk?????? lol 
                         
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                     rudegyal 
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                          Posted - 19 May 2004 :  16:42:57    
                           
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                        lolzz.. bless! 
                         
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                     Amina 
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                          Posted - 20 May 2004 :  14:44:17    
                           
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                        some school r getin police officer to do presentations on internet safety. i went to a hacney school early dis wk.The main objective was 2 emphasise not 2 give out personal details.eg. add. etc 
                        the children was also told 2 use internet in living rooms. 
                        if dey wanted 2 mt d person, it shud be in d presence of an adult in a public place. 
                         
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                     maxi 
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                          Posted - 31 May 2004 :  12:28:05      
                           
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                        Hmmm..nice question! 
                        Well it rilli depends how much u trust people! someone ways it's bad someways it's good :D 
                        Bad as in u neva know how the person is in reality ! Online is the BIGGEST AND GREATEST DISGUISE! well in bangladesh there have been cases that the girl runs away to meet her online luv, in the end she finds it's a guy much older than what he had claimed in the end got raped! :S well betta just dont go! for guys... hey this is funny, when u might go to meet ur online luv, ig might turn out that that she is a GAY~ :D lolz 
                         
                        Good: it rilli can be true luv.. it's possible.. that just explains it all..... 
                         
                         
                        But the chances of it being bad are 80% so just keep away 
                         
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                     jemsbhai 
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                          Posted - 03 Jun 2004 :  09:18:27            
                           
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                        hooray for sumon and pintu bhai!! hooray i say!! 
                         
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                     jemsbhai 
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                          Posted - 04 Jun 2004 :  00:11:08            
                           
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                        BengalTiger: why did u star out DALnet?? 
                         
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                     BengaLTiger 
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                          Posted - 04 Jun 2004 :  16:52:50              
                           
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                        BengalTiger Posted - 18 Apr 2004 : 11:57:56 
                        Jemsbhai Posted - 04 Jun 2004 : 00:11:08 
                         
                        If you had asked me that question nearly 2 months ago jemzy, i might have remembered as to why i filtered Dalnet, thus supplying you with an adequate responce. :(!! 
                         
                        :) 
                         
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                     jemsbhai 
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                          Posted - 05 Jun 2004 :  01:34:12            
                           
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                        so u actually do catch pedophiles on ur chatrooms? 
                         
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                     BengaLTiger 
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                          Posted - 05 Jun 2004 :  01:54:45              
                           
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                        Let me give you a scenario!! 
                         
                        Hello administrator, Someone going by the nick  is trying to chat me up, and i think his over 35!! 
                        Ok, thankyou for bringing this matter to our attention, Mean while ignore this person and we will investigate! 
                         
                         Hiya, visit http://mysexy.fakepicture.com/fake.jpg 
                        OK! 
                         
                        Mr peado, stupidly goes to see my fake picture, Exploited, and least does he know his computer has already been exploited and Mr Admin is logging his every private messages! Also browseing his Drive to find any clues as to what his real identity is! :) 
                         
                        If Mr peado is found to be someone else then he says he is! Mr Admin, Bans his computer name from our chat room, so no matter how many times he changes his IP or which ever proxy he use's to log into our chat room, he is not able to log in due to a ban placed on his computer! 
                         
                        :) 
                         
                         
                         
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                     jemsbhai 
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                          Posted - 05 Jun 2004 :  03:45:04            
                           
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                        hey!! the link is dead!! 
                         
                        maybe life is just a dream | 
                       
                      
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                     jemsbhai 
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                          Posted - 05 Jun 2004 :  03:45:58            
                           
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                        and u were miss16?? i KNEW it goddamit!! i mean very smart, very smart indeed!! 
                         
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                     BengaLTiger 
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                          Posted - 05 Jun 2004 :  16:18:26              
                           
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                        Clown! 
                         
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                     jemsbhai 
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                          Posted - 06 Jun 2004 :  08:23:01            
                           
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                        oh and did u ever catch any christian priests trying to seduce young boys in chat rooms?? 
                         
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                     Amina 
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                          Posted - 24 Jun 2004 :  13:03:10    
                           
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                        r u a priest? 
                         
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                     jemsbhai 
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                          Posted - 25 Jun 2004 :  07:20:50            
                           
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                        nope. im a molana :D 
                         
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                     Amina 
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                          Posted - 28 Jun 2004 :  20:29:31    
                           
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                        really? 
                         
                        live life 2 d ful xtent | 
                       
                      
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                     westlondon_gyal 
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                          Posted - 21 Jul 2004 :  11:53:44      
                           
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                        yeh i wud run off wit sum1 off da net lol 
                         
                         
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                     ssssima 
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                          Posted - 21 Jul 2004 :  16:28:59        
                           
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                        Lololz whys that then 
                         
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                     Amina 
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                          Posted - 24 Jul 2004 :  13:48:43    
                           
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                        yeh y? 
                         
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                     Fabia 
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                          Posted - 24 Jul 2004 :  18:25:05          
                           
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                        hmmm......lolz 
                         
                        "He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!" 
                        "O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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                     Amina 
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                          Posted - 29 Jul 2004 :  14:53:45    
                           
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                        lol 
                         
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