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Amina
Senior Cub
United Kingdom
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 16:03:43
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so who wod marry 4 money or wat r ur views?
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BengaLTiger
Moderator
United Kingdom
1882 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 16:06:32
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Does this question apply to both boys and girls? or just directed to girls! Since its mostly the case when it comes to girls! Does this sound familiar ("His a docter and his loaded, Giggles")
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Amina
Senior Cub
United Kingdom
1787 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 16:14:39
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it appiies 2 both!
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BengaLTiger
Moderator
United Kingdom
1882 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 16:16:35
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I'm looking for a woman who carry's her purse on a lorry! There hard to find, but with the ever growing numbers of working class woman, only time will tell! And i will chill forever more! :)
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Fabia
Average Cub
United Kingdom
659 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 16:24:35
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Asalaamu'alaikum darlings...
No, i wouldn't marry for money, it would be very wrong, i would marry someone because of their piety...
"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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BengaLTiger
Moderator
United Kingdom
1882 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 16:26:21
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Waalikum`asalam Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Baarakatuhu!
A generous responce again by Fabia!
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Lutonian
Super Member
United Kingdom
2786 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 16:28:23
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its not actually wrong 2 look at some1s wealth (as its one of the 6 valid criterias listed in the quran) but Fabia is right in piety is the best thing 2 look for.
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Fabia
Average Cub
United Kingdom
659 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 16:28:59
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Subhanallah...
Let us all prosper anf guide one-another into the Siratul-Mustaqueem....Aameen..
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"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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Fabia
Average Cub
United Kingdom
659 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 16:31:34
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Asalaamu'alaikum
Piety will prevent us from the fire of jahanaam not money and status... and for those ppl who marry for wrong reasons, they contemplate later in life...
Piety is the key to the doors of Jannah, and may Allah swt give us the taufeeq to be shaded by the doors of Jannah on the day of qiyamah..Aameen..
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"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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BengaLTiger
Moderator
United Kingdom
1882 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 16:33:28
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Its response's such as these by Muslim brothers/sisters like fabia, that makes one wake up and realise or appreciate what we are, as muslims!
Hatz down to Fabia!
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Fabia
Average Cub
United Kingdom
659 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 16:39:07
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Asalaamu'alaikum Brother Bengaltiger,
Jazzakallahukhair for your kind words Brother; but i do not deserve such accolade, you are too kind; Subhanallah yes we are fortunate that we are BORN muslims but dont act like we are... but Inshaa'Allah we will prosper...
Furthermore, no hats down to me, but make duaa for me brother and for our beloved ummah inshaa'allah... nothing but duaa for all my brothers and sisters x
"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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Fabia
Average Cub
United Kingdom
659 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 16:55:30
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Furthermore, i agree with Br Lutonian,
I would look for wealth, but not being my first priority; piety being my first & i hope so for the rest of us it is the same; but as for me it would like say it would obviously make life easier but i would use the wealth that my husband & I have to take my children (inshaa'allah if i get the taufeeq to have children) i would send them to respectful madressa, where they will learn more about Islam... you know what i mean...
Take care all for now
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"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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Lutonian
Super Member
United Kingdom
2786 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 16:58:11
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Originally posted by Fabia
Furthermore, i agree with Br Lutonian,
I would look for wealth, but not being my first priority; piety being my first & i hope so for the rest of us it is the same; but as for me it would like say it would obviously make life easier but i would use the wealth that my husband & I have to take my children (inshaa'allah if i get the taufeeq to have children) i would send them to respectful madressa, where they will learn more about Islam... you know what i mean...
Take care all for now
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"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
KNow exactly wat u mean - but theres a problem - i dont think there will be any good madrassas in the future in this country given how mr. blair has suddenly decided he is an alim and decided 2 issue fatwas abt wat islam is and isnt and wat kinda imam we can have.
The Tarmac Terrorist
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jemsbhai
Super Member
USA
3566 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:01:32
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Fabia jee if u wish u can send ur kids to my madrassa ... if u look at my profile from my picture u will immediately deduce how representative i am of islam today ...
and about the topic: yes, definately. children can be hade, character can be made, education can be acquired, so can friends, but money? does jemsbhai have money? NOO and does he have any of those other fine things ... NOO also!! thus money is the solution to all of jemsbhai's problems and if marriage be the key to wealth, then so be it ...
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BengaLTiger
Moderator
United Kingdom
1882 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:04:39
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Ameen!
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Fabia
Average Cub
United Kingdom
659 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:11:08
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Br Lutonian,
I comprehend of what you mean, I know, with whats happening with the world today and the Kufr and the Muslims and Government etc etc, you are right that there might not be any madressas, but let us all pray Inshaa'Allah that they will stand... for our sake and our children sake.
x
"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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jemsbhai
Super Member
USA
3566 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:14:17
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Fabia: it is very fine and wise for someone living the "THA MAHAL" to not marry for money, but for someone living in "THA HOLE" it can be a question of survival ... now jemsbhai will return to hunting rodents for dinner ...
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Fabia
Average Cub
United Kingdom
659 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:17:40
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The Mahal is just a name my father gave to our house; but don't worry you'll get married and you will be content, inshaa'allah, have subbar ok bhaiyah
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"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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BengaLTiger
Moderator
United Kingdom
1882 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:17:48
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Is gerbil on the menu today jemzy? Jemsbhai attentively raise's his head above the long green grass, with something fluffy in his mouth, gazing at me for a moment then ever so slightly nodding, after which he whoosh's away again. Carrying on with his business!
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Lutonian
Super Member
United Kingdom
2786 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:19:21
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quote:
Originally posted by Fabia
Br Lutonian,
I comprehend of what you mean, I know, with whats happening with the world today and the Kufr and the Muslims and Government etc etc, you are right that there might not be any madressas, but let us all pray Inshaa'Allah that they will stand... for our sake and our children sake.
x
"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
yes its true there is a chronic need for islamic schools especially in the muslim communities in the uk. its all well n good havin schools but ive noticed that too many ppl put too much reliance on the schools 2 educate their children wen they should realise that ultimately its their responsibility.
the other problem of course is that madrassas are still bound to teach national curriculum a lot of which is principally against islam (e.g. sex education (suppose 2 b by parents only), forced indoctrination of secularism etc)
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jemsbhai
Super Member
USA
3566 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:22:20
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no, that was last week, its fresh rat today. the gerbil u see in the drawer is NOT edible, i repeat, NOT edible!! and ill leave the reasons open to speculation ... .. and FYI jemsbhai does not need(have) a carpet, let alone a green one ...
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Originally posted by BengaLTiger
Is gerbil on the menu today jemzy? Jemsbhai attentively raise's his head above the long green grass, with something fluffy in his mouth, gazing at me for a moment then ever so slightly nodding, after which he whoosh's away again. Carrying on with his business!
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Fabia
Average Cub
United Kingdom
659 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:23:26
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Yes Dear Respected Br Lutonian...
It is very true indeed, let us all pray, for stead-fastness Inshaa'Allah...
"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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Lutonian
Super Member
United Kingdom
2786 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:25:20
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quote:
Originally posted by BengaLTiger
Is gerbil on the menu today jemzy? Jemsbhai attentively raise's his head above the long green grass, with something fluffy in his mouth, gazing at me for a moment then ever so slightly nodding, after which he whoosh's away again. Carrying on with his business!
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lol! i thought wen u was on abt grass u was talkin abt the stuff u smoke!
The Tarmac Terrorist
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jemsbhai
Super Member
USA
3566 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:26:00
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i have been sabbaring and sabbaring for all these years, and now the sabbaring has become intolerable suffering, and jemsbhai dosent get those 70 hoors with big eyes, then God save jemsbhai!!
quote:
Originally posted by Fabia
The Mahal is just a name my father gave to our house; but don't worry you'll get married and you will be content, inshaa'allah, have subbar ok bhaiyah
x
"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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BengaLTiger
Moderator
United Kingdom
1882 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:26:48
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Just enjoying reading Fabia's responce to lutonian, and vice versa! Its nice to know we can have a decent and a realism conversation on all aspects of life, in this case religeon, and wealth.
Jemmy, A blind man was standing on the corner with his dog when the dog raised his leg and wet on the man's trouser leg. The man reached in his pocket and took out a doggie biscuit. A busybody who had been watching ran up to him and said, "You shouldn't do that. He'll never learn anything if you reward him when he does something like that!". The blind man retorted, "I'm not rewarding him. I'm just trying to find his mouth so that I can kick him in the ass".
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Fabia
Average Cub
United Kingdom
659 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:29:03
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me too brother, if i had a choice i would marry now, but my parents want me to pursue my education, and im k with that, i guess im ready when they are; but i guess no matter how long u or i do subbur, were still gonna have to keep on doing our subbar, dont loose it brother, all will be revealed soon, inshaa'allah
"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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jemsbhai
Super Member
USA
3566 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:30:38
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@Fabia and Lutonians conversation: jemsbhai does not indulge or rather interfere in the enlightenement process, its a natural thing, and interjections will only harm the process ...
@BT: and the moral of the story is? BT is the dog and jemsbhai is blind?
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Fabia
Average Cub
United Kingdom
659 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:32:22
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jemsbhai what are u talking about BT being the dog and you being blind.... anyways, swiftly moving on.............
"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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Fabia
Average Cub
United Kingdom
659 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:34:15
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Likewise Br Bengaltiger...
I agree that we mature adults can communicate of important topic such as these, Alhamdulillah...
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"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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jemsbhai
Super Member
USA
3566 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:34:20
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ameen to all being revealed soon!!
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Fabia
Average Cub
United Kingdom
659 Posts
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Posted - 07 Jun 2004 : 17:38:11
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yes Br Jemzy, all will be revealed soon Inshaa'Allah
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"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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