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rez
Asian Baby
Bangladesh
41 Posts
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Posted - 06 Oct 2004 : 20:06:45
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>Being Twenty-Something
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>They call it the "Quarter-life Crisis." It is when you
>stop going along with the crowd and start realizing
>that there are a lot of things about yourself that you
>didn`t know and may not like. You start feeling
>insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or
>two, but then get scared because you barely know where
>you are now.
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>You start realizing that people are selfish and that,
>maybe, those friends that you thought you were so
>close to aren`t exactly the greatest people you have
>ever met and the people you have lost touch with are
>some of the most important ones. What you do not
>realize is that they are realizing that too and are
>not really cold or catty or mean or insincere, but
>that they are as confused as you.
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>You look at your job. It is not even close to what you
>thought you would be doing or maybe you are looking
>for one and realizing that you are going to have to
>start at the bottom and are scared.
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>You miss the comforts of college, of groups, of
>socializing with the same people on a constant basis.
>But then you realize that maybe they weren`t so great
>after all. You are beginning to understand yourself
>and what you want and do not want.
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>Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what
>others are doing and find yourself judging a bit more
>than usual because suddenly you realize that you have
>certain boundaries in your life and add things to your
>list of what is acceptable and what is not.
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>You are insecure and then secure. You laugh and cry
>with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone
>and scared and confused. Suddenly change is the enemy
>and you try and cling on to the past with dear life
>but soon realize that the past is drifting further and
>further away and there is nothing to do but stay where
>you are or move forward.
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>You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you
>loved could do such damage to you or you lay in bed
>and wonder why you can`t meet anyone decent enough to
>get to know better. You love someone but maybe love
>someone else too and cannot figure out why you are
>doing this because you are not a bad person.
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>You go through the same emotions and questions over
>and over and talk with your friends about the same
>topics because you cannot seem to make a decision.
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>You worry about loans and money and the future and
>making a life for yourself and while winning the race
>would be great, right now you`d just like to be a
>contender!
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>What you may not realize is that everyone reading this
>relates to it. We are in our best of times and our
>worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure
>this whole thing out.
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jemsbhai
Super Duper Asian
USA
4440 Posts
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Posted - 06 Oct 2004 : 23:23:43
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this is about the 20s??!! now i wanna be 17 again!!!
Maybe life is just a dream |
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admin
Forum Admin
United Kingdom
3845 Posts
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Posted - 07 Oct 2004 : 00:50:46
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jeez! im gonna be 23 this month and i've never felt like that!!!! maybe its yet to come!!!
"98% of the time i'm right, why worry about the other 3%?"
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Fabia
Super Duper Asian
United Kingdom
6888 Posts
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Posted - 07 Oct 2004 : 07:14:10
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lol
"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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tah
Asian Toddler
United Kingdom
69 Posts
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Posted - 07 Oct 2004 : 14:17:53
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| yeh.lol |
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Fabia
Super Duper Asian
United Kingdom
6888 Posts
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Posted - 07 Oct 2004 : 14:39:34
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im guna be 21 next month!!! Inshaa'Allah......dang!!! lol
"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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rez
Asian Baby
Bangladesh
41 Posts
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Posted - 07 Oct 2004 : 19:26:20
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I can relate to some of the experiences but having feelings for two guys at the same time hasn't happened... yet. Though I have disliked two guys at the same time in the past if that counts 
'I'm out of my mind but please feel free to leave a message' |
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Fabia
Super Duper Asian
United Kingdom
6888 Posts
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Posted - 07 Oct 2004 : 19:35:23
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i see rez
"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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Amina
Super Duper Asian
United Kingdom
9601 Posts
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Posted - 07 Oct 2004 : 22:48:56
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gosh
live life 2 d ful xtent |
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Fabia
Super Duper Asian
United Kingdom
6888 Posts
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Posted - 08 Oct 2004 : 08:43:09
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hhmmm
"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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Amina
Super Duper Asian
United Kingdom
9601 Posts
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Posted - 08 Oct 2004 : 17:14:26
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cool
live life 2 d ful xtent |
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Fabia
Super Duper Asian
United Kingdom
6888 Posts
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Posted - 08 Oct 2004 : 18:31:53
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innit
"He who kneels before Almighty Allah swt; can stand before anyone!"
"O Allah, let our last days be the best days of our life and our last deeds be the best deeds, and let the best day be the day we meet You."
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