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| Patthar Dil |
Posted - 26 Jan 2004 : 14:32:20
Do u peeps agree 2 marriage between paki an bengi, wud u go ahead an wud ur rents adapt 2 a gal/boy wiv diff traditions...
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| westlondon_gyal |
Posted - 07 May 2004 : 19:25:54
I think itz alrite but i wont feel good in a paki family! coz i always want a bengali family although im half paki but i want bengali tings round me nooo affence people?!!!
my cuzin got married 2 a paki guy they have been goin out for 8 years they cudnt get married coz his mum said bengalis arent religious n dehy luk down on us das why i never go after a paki guy!! but if i love him den maybe i will giv it a go
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| Mister Relaxed |
Posted - 02 May 2004 : 14:37:05
Nationality is too fickle a thing...
Ive got Bengali mates(in droves)..pakistani mates(in droves)....but im the sole guji....and Power is nothing without style and control...so im doin fine...
"Lifes easy when you're me"
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| afyz |
Posted - 01 May 2004 : 18:41:23
lol too true i agree nationality is a fickle thing.and i do agree wiv admin sum paki guys r jus full of attitude but then so r paki gals lol. im a paki guy myself but im just laid back and dont let fings drive me mad lol.
affy. b proud b loud and most of all be free and happy.
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| jemsbhai |
Posted - 29 Apr 2004 : 23:54:44
i have seen SOOO many bangali girls going out with and often marrying paki guys but not so vice versa ... i mean the numbers seem kind of lopsided ... anyways nationality is a very artificial thing, and i believe i can look thru a lot of ethnic and cultural lines, but then again ... ami bhuli nai re, bangla ma er 7 koti shontan ere ...
maybe life is just a dream
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| admin |
Posted - 29 Apr 2004 : 23:20:57
manchester's bengali guys are definately nice than their pakistani counterparts!
Its probably a different story for u southerners!
there seems to be an attitude problem with a lot of the paki guys around here - but a lot of guys i know are great!
"98% of the time i'm right, why worry about the other 3%?"
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| Openminded_gal |
Posted - 29 Apr 2004 : 20:26:45
sweet as and jasmin, I'm rite behind you on that one! lol
So many guys are eligiable for dating but not many who reach the standard for the
lifetime committment of marriage.
If I don�t speak my mind, how you going to know what I think?
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| Jasmin |
Posted - 29 Apr 2004 : 20:23:07
Sweet as Rasgula, i totally agree with u, pakis guys are much more attractive, i dnt wana diss our bengali boys but some of them are clueless....i wud love to marry a paki guy but thats jus asking for a death wish...
ANYTHING WORTH HAVING IS WORTH WORKING HARD FOR!!!:)
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| Sweet as Rasgula |
Posted - 26 Apr 2004 : 09:16:02
I find Paki guyz more attractive cos they are such a jokers!! i love paki guyz but i dont think i can marry one unless london's bengali guyz runs out!! i'm not trying to insult my own people but it's just the way bengali guys are !! i can't say no more!!!
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| afyz |
Posted - 25 Apr 2004 : 12:18:36
i think its fine to do that. pakistani marry bengali, in fact two of my friends have done that. and Thanks to god all is goin well. Me personally i wud if i knew she wos rite 4 me and vice versa.
affy
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| Openminded_gal |
Posted - 24 Apr 2004 : 22:59:51
Dad, dream on!! I may be open but not stupid. Mum knows I don't plan to have sex before marriage so she knows it's gonna be with me hubby so she'll be like just use contraception, you don't want hundreds of babies!! lol :p So i gather you don't tell your parent's much??
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| Ali_Bai |
Posted - 24 Apr 2004 : 22:44:15
so wif u cud translate ur poems wud u do it? 7 wat dyu think their reactions wud be?
Ali out!
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| Openminded_gal |
Posted - 24 Apr 2004 : 22:04:37
Ali, yeah i tell me parents pratically everything, i've got nothing to hide. I'm a good gal at heart!! lol And i meant in general, kids telling their parents everything, now that would be a eye opener.
Admin, I'm still waiting for you to translate them, if you can stop blushing that is!! :p My benagli is not good at all :(
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| admin |
Posted - 24 Apr 2004 : 21:43:43
translate ur poems we'll see how tough they are!
"98% of the time i'm right, why worry about the other 3%?"
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| Ali_Bai |
Posted - 24 Apr 2004 : 21:23:47
ooo, whats this slanging match goin here?!
& openminded gal, u didnt answer my question- wud u tel ur parents evrything that goes on in ur life. & wat sight wud u like to see, me tellin my parents?
Ali out!
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| Openminded_gal |
Posted - 24 Apr 2004 : 20:49:01
lol, admin my parents are made of much tougher stuff, unlike you!! :P
lol, Ali, now that would be a first and a sight I would like to see!!
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| Ali_Bai |
Posted - 24 Apr 2004 : 20:20:24
of course they would perceive me differently, but are u trying to say i should tell my parents everthing that goes on in my life? do u?
Ali out!
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| admin |
Posted - 24 Apr 2004 : 14:20:38
translate?! I'd give ur poor parents a heart attack! :P
gotcha on that one, ha!
"98% of the time i'm right, why worry about the other 3%?"
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| Openminded_gal |
Posted - 24 Apr 2004 : 13:22:46
lol, I don't think thats quite the same. Now if i acted on my poems, then yeah maybe. Although if you wanna translate for me, I'm sure I can share!! :p
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| admin |
Posted - 24 Apr 2004 : 01:43:25
hmmm, openminded gal, do u show ur poems to ur parents? no well then stop giving them a false image of urself! :p
"98% of the time i'm right, why worry about the other 3%?"
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| Openminded_gal |
Posted - 23 Apr 2004 : 23:23:56
Maybe if they knew the real you, they would perceive you differently??
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| Ali_Bai |
Posted - 23 Apr 2004 : 15:57:26
"Openminded" gal, who said im giving a false image of myself? this is how they perceive me
Ali out!
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| Openminded_gal |
Posted - 23 Apr 2004 : 13:59:07
Ali, you think it's ok that your giving them a false image of yourself and going behind their back??
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| Ali_Bai |
Posted - 23 Apr 2004 : 10:40:09
good topic to talk about "Patthar Dil". very interesting.
im bengali & ive never once in my life thought there was anything wrong with going out with a pakistani girl coz the only girls ive gone out with are pakis! (maybe 5 or 6, i dont exactly count)
is there sumthing wrong with me??
my parents will kill me if they knew coz they think of me as a bery bery ishmart boy. they havent seen the real "bad boy" in me, which i know girls like so much....i know i'll get caught chattin up a girl in a wedding where my parents are most likely to see me
Ali out!
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| Inaya |
Posted - 21 Apr 2004 : 17:40:09
i think it can happen...but i think mr parents wud neva accept it....
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| fatimaRocks |
Posted - 15 Apr 2004 : 19:58:56
your partner is suppose to be your best friend, someone who looks out for you and you look out for them. who you can trust with that is up to the individual. Fatima XXXXX
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| fatimaRocks |
Posted - 15 Apr 2004 : 19:56:36
i just think, it depends on who the person is and the families...remember marriage is for life, its about bringing two families together, raising children, two individuals living one lifestyle...not literally but in a sense..... if you share the same views, agree in how you want to live life...then sure go for it.....but think about the future. its about who you feel more connected to....your own kind....or not. its about who you relate to the most... some people find it easier to realte to someonw who has had a similar upbringing..understands their language natively etc... they wouldn't want a divide between familes.... its not simple saying they are the same religion its ok. living with someoe and sharing a life is very different than go out with some one. its about connecting with someone.
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| Openminded_gal |
Posted - 10 Apr 2004 : 23:30:02
Doesn't directly link to the thread by paki guys are hot!! Just had to get it out me system ok!! lol
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| maxi |
Posted - 09 Apr 2004 : 06:18:39
Hey sarah if you say that to an American he/she would blow their eyes out! Entire life time with just one person :D For them marriage is like a game... Britny, Married and Divorced in one day! and many others are there of such cases... BUt hey As i told you before ASians R UNIQUE! :D whether be it Bengali, Indians, paki's or anyother asians... There is no problem atall with a cross nationaltiy marriage, till the time they both are having good communication between each other... till the time both luv each other .... till the time both can underestand each other... I live in UAE and have seen Thousands of people having such type of marriages The local arabs are marrying Philipinies, Chinese, Indonasians... Paki's are marrying Indians and Bengalis... I have a friend whos father is paki and mom is indian... One my family friend recently married a paki guy :D .... I agree with Rani, that our parents are strictly against luv marriages because they think we are adolensence so we can't make big and right decisions by ourselves... and as they see examples of luv marriages are more prone to divorse... oh well.. i just hope i find a nice girl with whom i can spend all my time...even after death.. for whom i would luve to spend all my time in heaven :D
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| sonia |
Posted - 09 Apr 2004 : 01:01:32
Im a paki whos got sum tite bengali mates n a few of they're cousins n stuff av married pakis...i dnt fink deres n e thin wrong as long as the bre or gyal is not a kaafir...dats wat counts at the end of the day
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| sarah |
Posted - 04 Apr 2004 : 00:39:31
y cnt ppl jst get married and live happily y do ppl hav 2 interfer in their personal lives. its understandable wen parents dont agree bt dey will eventually come round to de fact dat u hav made ur decision!!!
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