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ShazJustShaz Posted - 29 Mar 2004 : 00:50:45
Wot r ur views on premarital sex???

r u for or against it?

explain why!
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jemsbhai Posted - 13 May 2004 : 18:49:46
ShazJustShaz: in simple words, i see no difference in VIEWING premarital sex versus VIEWING postmarital sex ...

maybe life is just a dream
sweet_as_suga Posted - 13 May 2004 : 18:47:33
wrong!!!! totally agree with mister r he's got the rite idea ;)


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ShazJustShaz Posted - 13 May 2004 : 00:24:00
quote:
fail to see the point. indeed JEMSBHAI would like nothing more than to view premarital sex, or postmarital sex for that matter, for it is a matter of priciple that the VIEWER does not discriminate between the two. with this in mind let me hastily draw the conclusion that VIEWING sex is unrelated to the marital status of the players involved therein, and as such it is a matter of great outrage that a view of premarital sex is quite different to a view of postmarital sex, and let me clear on this, that the signs of marriage ( ring etc) are not involved in the sexual act itself, and a great outrage it is ...



jemsbhai Posted - 12 May 2004 : 21:51:18
i fail to see the point. indeed JEMSBHAI would like nothing more than to view premarital sex, or postmarital sex for that matter, for it is a matter of priciple that the VIEWER does not discriminate between the two. with this in mind let me hastily draw the conclusion that VIEWING sex is unrelated to the marital status of the players involved therein, and as such it is a matter of great outrage that a view of premarital sex is quite different to a view of postmarital sex, and let me clear on this, that the signs of marriage ( ring etc) are not involved in the sexual act itself, and a great outrage it is ...

maybe life is just a dream
ShazJustShaz Posted - 12 May 2004 : 21:44:39
quote:
Welcome to my world Shaz and insomniac..now i know im not a monster or anything as such..and i repent everyday..Shaz,i put it to you HYPOTHETICALLY..what if we together..we'd had two yrs of a perfect relationship life,we got serious and thought about marriage..what if i then revealed this to you BEFORE we got married because i loved you,wanted to remain true to you and to myself..i was totally ashamed and apologetic and told you how much i had repented...what would you do???..id give my point of view but i might just sound biased cos of my situation..thats why i'll wait for yours..


Hi Mister Relaxed, sorry for da late reply!!!
errrrrmm.... well i think it would depend on how bad the situation is.......(sum things can be forgiven and other cant). how i felt about u! as a person and as a partner, i'd wana know y u hid that from me in da first place!....(shows lack of trust?)how strong is the relationship???.....if u cant be truthful!?

But it really depends on the state of mind ur in at da time, i think its more difficult to be rational wen ur in da situation urself, alot of other aspects need to be taken into consideration aswell, like the other important ppl in ur life like ur family. it really depends on how stongly u feel about the other person.

that wasn't very good i know!!!
any way at least i tried!!!

So Mister Relaxed lets have ur point of view now!!!!!
Inaya Posted - 15 Apr 2004 : 17:39:09
I THINK PEEPS WHO HAVE KIDS B4 MARRIAGE R SLAGS!!

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Mister Relaxed Posted - 15 Apr 2004 : 17:21:23
Welcome to my world Shaz and insomniac..now i know im not a monster or anything as such..and i repent everyday..Shaz,i put it to you HYPOTHETICALLY..what if we together..we'd had two yrs of a perfect relationship life,we got serious and thought about marriage..what if i then revealed this to you BEFORE we got married because i loved you,wanted to remain true to you and to myself..i was totally ashamed and apologetic and told you how much i had repented...what would you do???..id give my point of view but i might just sound biased cos of my situation..thats why i'll wait for yours..
Insomniac Posted - 14 Apr 2004 : 18:06:42
quote:
Originally posted by ShazJustShaz

* HOW WOULD U FEEL IF, U HAVE ALL UR LIFE BEEN SAVING URSELF FOR UR
WIFE/HSBAND BUT DEN U FOUND OUT THAT UR WIFE/HUSBAND TO BE HAD BEEN
IN PREMARITIAL RELATIONSHIPS????


WOULD U HAVE A PROBLEM WITH IT?[/blue]




It really depends, if the mrs honestly regretted it and wished it never happend then yeah i could forget about the whole thing and move on with her. However if she didnt regret it and didnt see anything wrong with it then they'd be problems cos aside from the religious point of view, if myself and the mrs had a kid then would she tell the kid that its ok to have sex before marriage etc. It would cause to many problems.

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ShazJustShaz Posted - 14 Apr 2004 : 17:57:36
quote:
Against it cos of religious view but still doesnt stop me from thinking about it, damn i need to get married asap!

quote:
i agree 100 % wid mister relaxed sex should be only there after marrige
before marriage it is considered fornicastion zeeena one of the major sins and the punishment in this world for a married ferson commiting adultury is death by stoning
and the punishment in the next life is much grevious
worser then being stoned to death

quote:
i dont believe in it...im a muslim..why should i not believe anything my prophet tells me...besides..my wedding night will be somthing special!


Hi guys!!!!!
from da replies it looks like most of da ppl here r muslims n therefore are against premaritial sex! n are saving themselves for dat special some1!!!
WELL DONE TO EVRYBODY THAT DOING THAT!!!!!!!!!!

so lets change it jus a bit....

* HOW WOULD U FEEL IF, U HAVE ALL UR LIFE BEEN SAVING URSELF FOR UR
WIFE/HSBAND BUT DEN U FOUND OUT THAT UR WIFE/HUSBAND TO BE HAD BEEN
IN PREMARITIAL RELATIONSHIPS????


WOULD U HAVE A PROBLEM WITH IT?
Insomniac Posted - 14 Apr 2004 : 17:32:49
Against it cos of religious view but still doesnt stop me from thinking about it, damn i need to get married asap!

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"If the movies have taught us anything, it's either never press the big red button or always press the big red button. Follow this simple rule and you can never go wrong."
Mister Relaxed Posted - 14 Apr 2004 : 17:22:49
P.S..Just coz i dnt believe in it doesnt mean i havent made the mistake..and i regret it all the way..i believe in the no no more than ever now..
london-finest Posted - 09 Apr 2004 : 19:26:07
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BAH Posted - 09 Apr 2004 : 18:09:07
londonfinest has hit the nail on its head!!!!

just wait wen u r married everything is gone taste sooooooooo much sweeter!!!

!!!!KNOWLEDGE IS POWER!!!!
london-finest Posted - 09 Apr 2004 : 02:10:20
i agree 100 % wid mister relaxed sex should be only there after marrige
before marriage it is considered fornicastion zeeena one of the major sins and the punishment in this world for a married ferson commiting adultury is death by stoning
and the punishment in the next life is much grevious
worser then being stoned to death

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xxx_metz_xxx Posted - 06 Apr 2004 : 18:31:34
tough question...doin it 4 fun is almost the same as being used for a 1 nite stand....doin it wid sum1 u luv makes it much more special....either way...as long as u can justify yourself to YOURSELF and know wats rite from wrong and are sensible then i dont c anythin wrong wid premarital sex...just b careful and dont take anythin for granted.

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Mister Relaxed Posted - 06 Apr 2004 : 17:19:36

i dont believe in it...im a muslim..why should i not believe anything my prophet tells me...besides..my wedding night will be somthing special!

Yas...
Iniavan Posted - 31 Mar 2004 : 12:40:40
very much; only then you know how hollow or good it is; and it sure does help one to get things straight after marraige!!!
khushi Posted - 31 Mar 2004 : 11:49:59



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BengaLTiger Posted - 31 Mar 2004 : 05:58:15
Well i dont know about you folks, but i cant stop bonking.

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Serek Posted - 31 Mar 2004 : 05:23:53
I say it's cool, as long as there's feeling. I say you don't need to be married to show you love someone. And the teenagers with kids are just the stupid ones :P

P.S. I think MoMo should learn how to speak english

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Naz2kool Posted - 30 Mar 2004 : 19:27:58
I agree wid Sky.... arrangement type sex can be really tricky... u gotta watch out coz feelings can get mixed into it if ur not too careful, even if u both agree that its jus 4 fun - anything can change!
Also u gotta watch out for any 'accidents' that may happen... there r risks involved... U need to make sure ur properly protected... even then nothin is certain...


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MoMo Posted - 30 Mar 2004 : 19:09:47
yh bt wat if u care bout sum1....n he cares bout u....bt u both dunt wanna get involved cuz there's certain factors that complicate tings..bt u styl wanna have a gud tym n are comfortable wid each uda.........dyu fink it wud b ok den?...lyk u have an arrangement wid dat person?
SKY Posted - 29 Mar 2004 : 20:57:40
Yeah, love free sex, or friends with benefits, or booty calls, whatever you want to call them...its bad. its impossible to sleep with someone and NOT become even a little emotionally attached. haha wait, no it isnt.

It's still immoral though. Have sex only if you've committed.
remember to wear a condom!

d p

Shea Posted - 29 Mar 2004 : 20:41:48
Hmmm, we are old enough to make that choice. Premarital or Post Marital makes no difference, but Love Free Sex is pretty bad! Call your self a pimp or player or whatever, its still bad. Love without sex just makes you guys one night stand whores. It's fine if the two people are IN love when they have it but break up later... but meh, thats just me.

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alifahimkhan Posted - 29 Mar 2004 : 20:32:27
SIGH!!!!!!!!i wish it was permitted in ISLAM!!
SKY Posted - 29 Mar 2004 : 16:00:48
I don't care if people have premarital sex. Personally though, I would LIKE to wait until I find that special someone, but s*** tends to happen. Get on with it.

dp
Yazz Posted - 29 Mar 2004 : 15:53:45
hmmm......

live and let live.....dont let ppl get you down!
Serene Posted - 29 Mar 2004 : 15:04:48
I don't believe in it...not only is it a religious matter, I somewhat feel I have to wait for that special someone and have that as one way of expressing my love for them.

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.
Darcy Posted - 29 Mar 2004 : 01:00:48
lol chex should be banned till ur 21!!!!!!!! to may kids haveing babbies these days


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admin Posted - 29 Mar 2004 : 00:57:11
no no no no, thats the cause of all those teenage girls pushing prams!

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